Saturday, April 14, 2007

He Says He's a SIX!

Several months ago I asked my 8 year old son where he was at in terms of his desire to become a Christian. I asked him to consider where he was on a scale of one to ten. One would be "I am not interested at all in becoming a Christian" and ten would be "I am ready to become a Christian". His answer then was a "three". I was hardly overjoyed but I was thankful that we had at least found a way to talk about it and I felt like he was being completely honest about where he was at.

Tonight I asked him again. This time...he said he was a six! I am encouraged by that because it tells me he is closer than he was several months ago. After the initial talk I have been more diligent about sharing my faith story with him and I have been praying for him.

It wasn't too terribly long ago that I didn't feel like there were any signs of spiritual activity going on in his life. Now, I can definitely see the signs of life.....It isn't that I am trying to rush him or encourage him to make a decision he isn't ready to make....I am just so glad to know that he is getting closer....the process is underway....for that I am grateful....

I also asked him where he was on the scale in terms of how he was in relation to his daddy's death. One would be "It still really hurts and I am still very, very sad" and ten would be "I am ok...I still miss him but I am ok". His answer tonight was a "seven"....for that I am also grateful.....

Our conversation tonight became an opportunity for me to tell him how proud I was of him and how proud his daddy would be of him. He is doing well in school....his behavior at home is good....I told him I'd take a dozen of him.....and I would....and I know his daddy is so proud of him and the young man he is turning out to be........(this is where I now wait for lightning to strike because that always happens when I brag on my kids....but I really am proud of Nathan regardless of what bonehead thing he might do tomorrow)

3 comments:

Jamie said...

Shelly,

I've tagged you for a Thinking blogger's award. Go to my blog to see the details.

Laura said...

Look at you getting an award..good for you.

Nathan's a SIX!! That makes me smile. What's even more awesome, is that he is open to you about this kind of stuff. Good for you for talking about it with him.

He is a great kid! I always enjoy being around him and I know Brian would be proud of who he is turning out to be.

Bruce said...

And a well deserved award too.

B~